Where Do I Stand in This Relationship?

Many people have been quite curious about how I do a love compatibility test. Some of them asked me about the technical aspect of it. In this article, I will share with you how you can determine where you stand in a relationship just based on you and your partner's birth dates.

From your birth dates, you can determine whether you are the upper hand or lower hand, and when are the ups and downs of your relationship. You will learn how long will your upper hand or lower hand status last and how you could minimize the down times of your relationship.

Recently, a client asked me this question "Where Do I Stand In This Relationship?", which is the title of this article. I will use her case as a case study to help you understand Chinese astrology and love compatibility better. But in order to protect her, I will not be using her real name. Before I begin, let me list out all their information below. . .

Name: Ann
Date Of Birth: 12th September 1985
Hour Of Birth: Between 9am to 11am

Year Pillar: Wood Ox (Earth)
Month Pillar: Wood Rooster (Metal)
Day Pillar: Wood Tiger (Wood)
Hour Pillar: Earth Snake (Fire)

Current Luck Pillar: Fire (2004 to 2008)
Next Luck Pillar: Water (2009 to 2013)
Favorable Elements: Water, Wood
Unfavorable Elements: Metal, Earth, Fire

Name: AndyDate Of Birth: 12th August 1983
Hour Of Birth: Shortly after midnight

Year Pillar: Water Pig (Water)
Month Pillar: Metal Monkey (Metal)
Day Pillar: Water Monkey (Metal)
Hour Pillar: Metal Rat (Water)

Current Luck Pillar: Fire (2004 to 2008)
Next Luck Pillar: Fire (2009 to 2013)
Favorable Elements: Earth, Fire, Wood
Unfavorable Elements: Metal, Water

From the information above, Ann went through 5 years of Fire from 2004 to 2008. Fire is Andy's favorable element. But since the element of Water is extremely strong in Andy's pillars (due to Metal strengthening Water), the Fire in his luck pillar (2004 to 2008) is not enough.

Here is where Ann's Fire pillar comes into play. Ann's Fire pillar helps to reduce the strong Water and Metal in Andy's pillars. From both their luck pillars, Andy needs Ann's Fire more than Ann needs Andy's Fire (Both of them went through a Fire pillar from 2004 to 2008). This explains why Ann has the upper hand from 2004 to 2008, as Andy needs her more than she needs him.

Looking at the next luck pillars, Ann's next luck pillar is Water, which is from 2009 to 2013. Andy's next luck pillar is still Fire. Ann's Water luck pillar is not favorable to Andy. Andy needs Fire instead of Water. This means than Andy will start losing interest in Ann from 2009 onwards.

How about Ann?Will she also start losing interest in Andy?The answer is yes. Water can already be found in her luck pillar. She no longer needs the Water in Andy's pillars. She will be self-sufficient in terms of the Water element. So what's the conclusion here?

My analysis is that the relationship might end off after Ann's 24th birthday in 2009. Both parties will part on a good note, as both will start drifting away from each other. But if Ann really wants the relationship to go on, is there anything she can do?The answer is yes.

As long as she is able to increase the effect of Fire during their outings, she will still stand a chance of making the relationship go on. My suggestion will be to wear more Fire colors like Red, Orange or Purple. To go for movies (Fire activity) or BBQ. Any activities related to light or fire is highly encouraged. Going for a suntan on the beach is also a good way to increase the effect of Fire.

Right now, it is all in Ann's hands what she wants for this relationship. I hope you have enjoyed this.


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How to Tell From Your 8 Characters When is Your Next Romance

You are probably already familiar with the 3 romance stars,namely the marriage star,the sex star and the happiness star.In this article,you will learn about the dating star and how to use it to predict your next romance.

This article is specially for those who are single and seeking romance.If you are already in a relationship,then this article may not apply to you.

The marriage star,sex star and happiness star are all derived basing on your chinese horoscope.The dating star that we are going to look at today will be derived basing on your day of birth.The element of your day of birth will determine your dating star.

Let me give you some background about the dating star.In chinese astrology,the dating star is also known as the "Hong Yan Star".If the "Hong Yan Star" is present in your 8 characters,this can also mean that you are very popular with the opposite sex.

Now,let me show you how to derive the dating star basing on the element represented by your day of birth.If you are born on...

"Yang" Wood day,it is at Horse(Fire)
"Yin" Wood day,it is at Monkey(Metal)
"Yang" Fire day,it is at Tiger(Wood)
"Yin" Fire day,it is at Sheep(Earth)
"Yang" Earth day,it is at Dragon(Earth)
"Yin" Earth day,it is at Dragon(Earth)
"Yang" Metal day,it is at Dog(Earth)
"Yin" Metal day,it is at Rooster(Metal)
"Yang" Water day,it is at Rat(Water)
"Yin" Water day,it is at Monkey(Metal)

With the information above,you can easily predict your romance luck.For example,you are born on "Yang" Wood day.Your dating star is at Horse.This means that during Horse years and Horse months,your chances of going out on dates or finding romance is there.

Let me list out the periods of each of the dating stars for you below...

Horse Years:2002,2014,2026,2038,2050
Horse Month:6th June to 6th July,plus or minus one day.

Monkey Years:2004,2016,2028,2040,2052
Monkey Month:8th August to 7th September,plus or minus one day.

Tiger Years:2010,2022,2034,2046,2058
Tiger Month:4th February to 5th March,plus or minus one day.

Sheep Years:2003,2015,2027,2039,2051
Sheep Month:7th July to 7th August,plus or minus one day.

Dragon Years:2000,2012,2024,2036,2048
Dragon Month:5th April to 5th May,plus or minus one day.

Dog Years:2006,2018,2030,2042,2054
Dog Month:8th October to 7th November,plus or minus one day.

Rooster Years:2005,2017,2029,2041,2053
Rooster Month:8th September to 7th October

Rat Years:2008,2020,2032,2044,2056
Rat Month:8th December to 5th January of the following year,plus or minus one day.

One more example,just to make things clearer.Let's say you are born on "Yang" Earth day.Your dating star is at Dragon.Dragon years and Dragon months will be favorable periods for romance.

The next dragon year is 2012.As for Dragon months,they span from 5th April to 5th May each year.If you are born on "Yang" Earth or "Yin" Earth day,this month is your romance month.Go all out to find the romance you desire.

If you are interested in more information about romance luck and Indian Numerology,please visit my website http://www.determineyourloverbynumbers.com/ and claim your FREE copy of "X-Ray Numbers Miniature E-Book" and also your FREE subscription to my montly Romance Luck E-newsletter.