Where Do I Stand in This Relationship?

Many people have been quite curious about how I do a love compatibility test. Some of them asked me about the technical aspect of it. In this article, I will share with you how you can determine where you stand in a relationship just based on you and your partner's birth dates.

From your birth dates, you can determine whether you are the upper hand or lower hand, and when are the ups and downs of your relationship. You will learn how long will your upper hand or lower hand status last and how you could minimize the down times of your relationship.

Recently, a client asked me this question "Where Do I Stand In This Relationship?", which is the title of this article. I will use her case as a case study to help you understand Chinese astrology and love compatibility better. But in order to protect her, I will not be using her real name. Before I begin, let me list out all their information below. . .

Name: Ann
Date Of Birth: 12th September 1985
Hour Of Birth: Between 9am to 11am

Year Pillar: Wood Ox (Earth)
Month Pillar: Wood Rooster (Metal)
Day Pillar: Wood Tiger (Wood)
Hour Pillar: Earth Snake (Fire)

Current Luck Pillar: Fire (2004 to 2008)
Next Luck Pillar: Water (2009 to 2013)
Favorable Elements: Water, Wood
Unfavorable Elements: Metal, Earth, Fire

Name: AndyDate Of Birth: 12th August 1983
Hour Of Birth: Shortly after midnight

Year Pillar: Water Pig (Water)
Month Pillar: Metal Monkey (Metal)
Day Pillar: Water Monkey (Metal)
Hour Pillar: Metal Rat (Water)

Current Luck Pillar: Fire (2004 to 2008)
Next Luck Pillar: Fire (2009 to 2013)
Favorable Elements: Earth, Fire, Wood
Unfavorable Elements: Metal, Water

From the information above, Ann went through 5 years of Fire from 2004 to 2008. Fire is Andy's favorable element. But since the element of Water is extremely strong in Andy's pillars (due to Metal strengthening Water), the Fire in his luck pillar (2004 to 2008) is not enough.

Here is where Ann's Fire pillar comes into play. Ann's Fire pillar helps to reduce the strong Water and Metal in Andy's pillars. From both their luck pillars, Andy needs Ann's Fire more than Ann needs Andy's Fire (Both of them went through a Fire pillar from 2004 to 2008). This explains why Ann has the upper hand from 2004 to 2008, as Andy needs her more than she needs him.

Looking at the next luck pillars, Ann's next luck pillar is Water, which is from 2009 to 2013. Andy's next luck pillar is still Fire. Ann's Water luck pillar is not favorable to Andy. Andy needs Fire instead of Water. This means than Andy will start losing interest in Ann from 2009 onwards.

How about Ann?Will she also start losing interest in Andy?The answer is yes. Water can already be found in her luck pillar. She no longer needs the Water in Andy's pillars. She will be self-sufficient in terms of the Water element. So what's the conclusion here?

My analysis is that the relationship might end off after Ann's 24th birthday in 2009. Both parties will part on a good note, as both will start drifting away from each other. But if Ann really wants the relationship to go on, is there anything she can do?The answer is yes.

As long as she is able to increase the effect of Fire during their outings, she will still stand a chance of making the relationship go on. My suggestion will be to wear more Fire colors like Red, Orange or Purple. To go for movies (Fire activity) or BBQ. Any activities related to light or fire is highly encouraged. Going for a suntan on the beach is also a good way to increase the effect of Fire.

Right now, it is all in Ann's hands what she wants for this relationship. I hope you have enjoyed this.


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