Thursday, August 28, 2008

How Can A Love Compatibility Test Help You In Finding Your Ideal Partner

In my previous posts,I kept mentioning about home feng shui.For a change,this post will be about love compatibility.You will learn how you can benefit from a love compatibility test.

Let's start first with the limitations about love compatibility tests.Doing a love compatibility can help you narrow down your choices,but it can't help you find your choices.You will still need to work on finding your choices.

About how to find your choices and how to maximise your romance luck,I will cover that another time.Meanwhile,I will just touch on love compatibility tests.

Many people do love compatibility tests just for the fun of it.Just to see if they are compatible with their current partner.These group of people are usually already in a relationship.For those whose relationship are working fine,it is mostly for entertainment purposes.

The others,who are facing problems in the relationship will be taking it more seriously.However,most love compatibility tests are for entertainment purposes.They are very general,not personalised.This explains why the accuracy rate is not that high.

In my personal opinion,people who should do compatibility tests are those under these circumstances:

1.You are single and presented with a few choices.You want to know which is the best choice for you,and will the relationship be long term or short term.

2.You are interested in someone who may already be in a relationship.You want to know whether you still have a chance.That is,you want to know where you stand.If you target is not really compatible with his/her current partner,you might want to keep a lookout for a chance,so that you will be able to act fast.

In the first circumstance,you need to know which is your best choice,so that you are able to invest your time,effort and other resources in the right person.Some clients told me that they made wrong choices.

They invested a lot of resources and the relationship didn't work out.If that has ever happened to you,I understand how you feel.End of the day,despite putting in a lot of effort and resources,they still end up in heartbreak.

Hey,it is very unfair.I know it as I have been through it.There are a lot of cases where your potential target is making use of you.With the compatibility test,you will be able to "see through" this person.And at the same time,you can tell how long will the relationship last.

You will also able to know whether you will be fighting an uphill battle,should you try to go for this target.This will tell you whether you are in an advantageous or disadvantageous situation.You can then decide whether to let go and change target or to continue.

Circumstance two,you are interested in someone who is already attached.Hmm...ok,maybe you don't want to be the 3rd party.You feel that it is wrong to snatch away someone's lover.And if you are the 3rd party,you are always feeling second best.

However,you like the other party target so much that you are willing to be the 3rd party for the sake of him/her.But then,on the other hand,sometimes you wonder if it is worth the effort.Will the day really come when you don't have to be the 3rd party?

Now,the love compatibility test will tell you whether you have a stronger position or your competitior has a stronger position.From here,you will know how high are your chances.If your competitior has a stronger position,you should just give up and move on.

OK,at the beginning,when you discover that your target is already attached,you may feel disappointed.But think about this,what if your target is very unhappy in the current relationship?Of course,I'm not saying that it will happen all the time.

But what if it happens?What if you give up,then after sometime,you target ends his/her current relationship and someone else comes into the picture?I'm sure that will make you feel devastated right?

You want to find out where you stand,then come up with a battle plan and go for it.

I missed out the 3rd circumstance.In the 3rd circumstance,your target has a lot of potential suitors.In other words,you face a lot of competition.Besides telling you where you stand,the love compatibility test can also reveal information about your target that your competitiors don't know.

You will be able to gain an edge over them.Information like what kind of things he/she likes.What kind of personality he/she has.What are his/her weaknesses.How to handle him/her so that you can easily build rapport.

Of course,if you know information about your competitiors,it is even better for you.You will be able to work the situation to your advantage.

I understand that some people may not agree with what I say.But think about this,we all exist in this world to be happy.If you can't be happy,then it is pointless to live.People who supress their disappointments and sadness will feel worse when one day,all these negative emotions come back and haunt them.It will stop their progress.

Now,speaking in the situation which your target is already in a relationship.If he/she is already happy,you really shouldn't try to mess up their current relationship.That would be mean.The only time you should compete is if he/she is unhappy in the current relationship.

If you are looking for guidance in picking the correct partner,or if you already decided on the right one,a personalised love compatible test may be a worthwhile investment for you.

In the next post,I will touch on the components of a love compatibility test.How can you use the information in the test to enhance your relationship.

Friday, August 15, 2008

How To Determine If The House Owner Is A Hen-Pecked Man?

Today,I am going to share with you something interesting.I think everyone will be interested in this topic.Men will be interested because they don't want to be hen-pecked.Women who want to control their husbands will also be very interested in what I will be sharing with you.

Do you know that just by looking at a house from the exterior,you can determine whether the husband or the wife is the dominant person in the family?It is very simple,anyone can do it.You don't need any knowledge in feng shui to be able to do it.

You just need to look at two things.One,the house on the left of your house.Two,the house on the right of your house.

Looking out from your house towards the main road,if the house on you left is taller than the house on your right,it means that the husband is the dominant one.If the house on your right is taller than the house on your left,it means the wife is the dominant one.Which also means that the husband is hen-pecked.

This not only applies to houses,it also applies to office buildings.If you are a man being dominated by women in your workplace,you might want to look at the buildings on both sides of your office building.

OK,I know it sounds a bit far-fetched.But don't believe me.See for yourself.Only by seeing for yourself,you can convince yourself and learn through practical experience.

I will come to the explaination why is it so...

In Feng Shui,the left is known as the Green Dragon position.The Green Dragon position represents men.The right is known as the White Tiger position,which represents women.

If the White Tiger position is taller or higher than the Green Dragon position,it means that women are controlling men.

Now,what happens if there are no houses or buildings at both positions?In this case,you need to see if there are any trees.If there is a tree at the White Tiger position and nothing at the Green Dragon position,the women will still dominate.

OK,this is an easy feng shui lesson.I hope you will find this useful.See you again in the next post.


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Friday, August 8, 2008

8th August 2008 An Auspicious Day?

For the calendar to read 08/08/08,it is a once-in-a-century day.For the Chinese,8 is an auspicious number.Many people registered their marriages on this day.

However,is it really an auspicious day for everyone?

Answer:It depends.

8 August 2008 is Earth Rat Year,Metal Monkey Month and Metal Dragon Day.The year,month and day are all in affinity.Basing on the calendar,it is generally an auspicious day.But using the 5 elements,this day has a lot of Metal and Water.

Those whose favorable elements are Metal and Water will find this day a very good day.On the flip side,if Metal and Water are unfavorable to you,you might find it an average or even unlucky day.

Those born in Spring(4th February to 5th May),those born in Summer(6th May to 7th August) and those born in Dog month(8th October to 7th November) may find today a lucky day,as Metal and Water are favorable to those born in Spring,Summer and Dog month.

People born in Autumn(8th August to 7th October) and Winter(8th November to 3rd February) may find today average or even an unlucky day.

In conclusion,you need to check the elements to determine if the day is auspicious and not just base on the numbers.8 may be a lucky number for some people,but the elements play a more important role.

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